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Monday, 21 October 2013

LIVE AND LOVE

My name is Teniola, lots of friends ask me for relationship advice since my university days, I wonder why they all come to me for a piece of my mind and I must have said things that helped them cos now I get a lot of colleagues and friends still wanting a my opinion in their decision making. So permit me to discover my insightful gift on relationship talks and pls do share with me all your relationship rides  and know I will be your friend, sister and daughter.. So indulge me like one.

I have been thinking of what strikes us the hardest in life. Yes its love. So here is what I wanna start with and just so u know am gonna refer you to this few words of mine 'For everyone out there that has not found true love, I can tell you, 'Don't give up' I repeat 'NEVER EVER GIVE UP ON LOVE'

Love stories don't just happen on the silver screen, its still very much around even in these artificial times. Hey yeah... I will forgive you for saying 'Love doesn't exist' and that's because you have made your past experiences or shared story your own life facts. 

Tayo got married at 32, I bumped into her at the bank last week and she was one of those pretty girls in school. Tayo narrated how unlucky she had been with guys despite her beauty and so at 29 she gave up on love and focused on her career but she found love just 2yrs after. Anyway Tayo's love story is one for another day.

You have got to accomplish two things in life. Living and loving. So get a life while you look out for love. Don't let one stop the other and never settle for less. They will both happen anyway so why worry. Get living and wait for love.   

Do u believe love still exist? 

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16 comments:

  1. Anonymous21 October 2013 at 15:20

    Nice piece!

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  2. tomi smith21 October 2013 at 16:22

    I like that phrase you used "get a life whole looking out for love".. nice writeup!

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  3. Anonymous21 October 2013 at 16:27

    L♥√ع...........nice one

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  4. Alex21 October 2013 at 16:29

    Loool love is a complicated thing,nobody can actually know enough about it.. that's my opinion

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  5. Anonymous21 October 2013 at 17:26

    Love is for people who have experienced it and its another story for the unlucky ones.

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  6. moyosola21 October 2013 at 21:43

    Don't give up on love,it is still within and around you. Just find a way to tap it like resources. Efforts and attitude keep love around you,so also other way round round.That's my perspective anyway....

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  7. moyosola21 October 2013 at 22:02

    Don't give up on love, it needs effort to tap it like raw material waiting to be refined. Attitude matters a lot if you want to love and be loved. That's my own perspective anyway...Love still exist!

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  8. Fausat Benson22 October 2013 at 01:52

    Noooooo I don't believe it exists... Okbye.

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  9. The 41122 October 2013 at 04:00

    When I hear 'love', I only think of kindness & tolerance, patience & a longing to share. It's never automatically about a 'relationship'. It's about living well with my neighbour.
    For relationships, LOVE has been abused. Give me mutual respect and trust.
    Nice blog. (Y)

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  10. Anonymous24 October 2013 at 03:56

    Love has become very complex these days. It's only for the good hearted and mature minded. I do not believe it still exists.

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  11. Anonymous24 October 2013 at 10:15

    Many get it wrong with love because it is perceived ONLY as an EMOTION...yea maybe it could be that, but more importantly, love is a DECISION.

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  12. Anonymous25 October 2013 at 02:42

    Many misunderstand what Love truly means. Once we don't get it mixed up with what movies and books define it as, then we will find "True" love. So please let us stop wasting time looking for the wrong things.

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  13. Anonymous25 October 2013 at 02:50

    Hmmm. There's an iota of truth in reality stories and the movies. We must balance our perception on what love is. I believe it's as sweet as the movie stories. I also agree it's as real as what reality brings

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  14. Adesewa25 October 2013 at 03:33

    Well if u ask me,love exist. Buh definitely nt 4 me. And I agree wit gettin a life while u find love.

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  15. Anonymous26 October 2013 at 01:08

    It sure exist and im a testimony

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  16. Anonymous26 October 2013 at 02:46

    Love is rare in these times but it does exist.

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